Wednesday, November 11, 2009

ME, YOU and OTHERS

My last post was in april 2009, already 7 months i din visit my blogs, 7 months..... does it long times? i don know how to get the answer. Many people say it is a short period but other said it long.

According to calculation, 7 months almost equal to 28 weeks or 168days or 4032 hours.
Does it long? to me, it is not the matter of long or short period. it is the matter how i pass through this 7 months.

Many things happen... important things and miscellaneous things, happy and unhappy, good and bad.
let talk about the good things.
1. MY GF and I.... very love each other, we more understand each other compare to the initial journey of love.
2. i very happy in my study, i meet many very good lecturers (Dr. WOng Sau wei from peadiatric, Dr. Halim from othopeadic, AP Dr. Ruzanna ZamZam). they are very dedicate and nice teachers and doctors. bsc of them, i think UKMMC sure will be one of the best medical center in the world.
3. i already learned and knew how to build the my own desktop. planning to do bussiness in future but still in the process of planning..... do u support me?
4. my father just brought Panansonic 40' LCD, woo.. nice tv. i like it.

Bad things....
1. my grandpa has diagnosed with lung cancer and had metastases to multiple organs. however, that stupid doctor until now still did no explain to us complete what happen to him not even prognosis. He so selfish when i ask him question last time, he like try to hide sometimes in behind. he thought we are 'layman' don know anythings. at least must tell in simple way. he can suddenly said my grandpa will die soon, then the nest day he say my grandpa nothing very healthy. he even scold my grandpa not coming to trace his biopsy result, what this stupid doctor saying, he is the person who suppose to trace the result, this is his resposiblility. i really interest where he graduate, if not mistaken is UM. anyway, this is not important now, my grandpa is in severe condition nothing can be reverse. he is on chemotherapy now. we trying our best to give him the best ever. he is suffering...... hope everthing will be fine.
Pls as a medical personal, remember! Communication is so important... patient not want the doctor like GOD can heal everything, they just want to knew what happen to them and tell them the truth pls be sincere. always remember the person having the disease is the patient is not U, doctor. haiz... don know how to continues de...... it is so sad that i saw my senior like this.....
My grandpa din blame anything pun, he so tough and strong.... he had UTi last few days now stil in delirium stage... he has disorganised speech and thought.. however he stil remember one of his grandchild is study medicine in KL, he always ask when he going to back........... sorry i cannot continues...

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

u do business with computers? i sure support... unless you compete wit me then i strangle you lo.. LOL.. kidding...

yes, communication is very very important in a clinical setting. its very hard to find that in Drs. nowadays, especially when they are specialists or consultants... bloody arrogant... at least locally.. Anyways, be strong and all the best~